I am not sure how much of the concept of Halloween Oliver grasped, but we had fun talking about it beforehand. I told him how children dress up in different costumes, and that he was going to be Fox in Socks. I explained how they go out and knock on neighbors doors and say "Trick or Treat" to get yummy candy that they like to eat. When I would ask him what he was going to be: a pirate? an elephant? a robot? he would shake his head No No No... until I asked, Fox in Socks? and then he'd give a big grin!
So in the evening I suited Ollie up (he didn't fuss too much, luckily!) and we went out Trick or Treating on our street with some of his cousins. I recorded "Trick or Treat" onto one of his talking buttons, so that he could say it himself. Some of the neighbors who are not familiar with Oliver's cerebral palsy probably thought it was weird, but I guess I have to get used to that, or at least try not let it bother me so much. It was both a fun and sad time for me, watching the kids running, playing, talking and collecting candy. I wished things were different for us, and especially missed Shami, who was away for the week at a meeting in England. But I did my best to put on a happy face, and I think Ollie had a fun experience. And he was an awfully cute Fox in Socks!
In the photo: Jeanine, Eliza, Sean, Devon, and Kieran in the back. Caitlin, Shannon, Oliver, and Mariah in front.
3 comments:
Oliver was WAY cute in his fox in socks costume! I am so glad we got to see him! Dont worry about your neighbors. If they can't appreciate how much work it took for Oliver to learn to push that button then they don't deserve another thought. You are one strong momma and I am so happy for you guys. Oliver is making so much progress! You are doing such a wonderful job with him! This may sound strange coming from me but I'm just going to say it anyways. I am proud of you, Meghan. You are doing everything you can for Oliver and as hard as that is you are handling it. Keep on going and take time to soak up the good things.
Oh you naughty little red Fox in blue socks, you do look like *Knox in box* playing with lots of blocks & locks. I wish I had such a talented mom like yours Ollie ! She can do wonders and miracles with her ideas and hard work. That is why we are sure you are in the best possible hands on earth! We love you all and hope for the best.
What a shame daddy had to miss the cutest little Fox in Socks that ever there was! And what about mummy, did you dress up too?? Glad you got a laugh out of our little "dracula"... Thinking of you lots. Take care. Susan + the 3 sisters
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